The Winning Hand You're Dealt

Your life is yours to figure out. We're all put into circumstances of our choosing, in order to grow past the difficulties we need to have, in order to go to the next step. If you get stuck, you stay in karma. If you grow , you get darma. This version of growing involves changing your mind pattern, in order to experience more life. Your mind can make you strong if you get out of the way of it. You do this by embracing the changes that come your way, both supposedly good and bad. Good and bad are merely someone's opinions, that you have accepted for the moment. Let them go and experience all of life. Become an observer of the tones and frequencies of your life. Watch it repeat when you don't learn and expand when you do. Remember, you make the rules of your life, and you alone. If ever you don't think you're in control, stop blaming others for a moment and take responsibility for your life in its entirety. Each nuance is connected and everything that has happened and will happen to you is a reflection of you and what you want out of life. Life is about connection and how much you consciously believe this fact will determine how far your reach is in this life. You can work 9-5 m-f, get drunk on Sat,and go to church and repent on Sun, only to start the cycle all over again on Mon. You don't have to think to do this. You can wonder why some people are lucky and seem to get all the breaks and some, possibly like you, are not. We are made to strive and push the envelope. When we do, we change. Sometimes this change is for better, and sometimes it is for worse. There I go again with opinions, like better and worse, as if it mattered at all. What does matter is staying in the game and using the cards you're dealt to make this game work out. We are always dealt a winning hand and it is up to us to make lemonade from possible lemons, or better yet change the taste of lemons to a more suitable taste by changing our thoughts of why a lemon tastes good or bad. Life is in the doing, not in the opinions of an observer who is observing the doer. Accepting what is and working within that framework is the human trademark. If we try to change what is into what we want, we wind up going the long way around the problem. The real trick is to change how we experience what is, by changing our mind pattern, which in turn changes us. By going quiet and consulting with the larger picture, we become desensitized to our opinions and concentrate more on being in the flow of the universe, which changes the physical universe at will. Be mighty careful what you think about because it usually comes true and it may not be what you expected it to be. For instance, if you concentrate on how bad your boss is most of time and wish things would be different some of the time, your boss may get worse because that is what you putting out to the universe. Negative thinking or pessimism get more of the same. It is the law of reflection. How can attract anything into your life if all you think about is it's reverse. Confirming what you don't have is asking for more of what you don't want. You have to change your actions to get different results. 3-D is all about thoughts in action. If you have a thought and don't act on it, by what power do you expect that thought to take form in 3-D. You create your own personal reality, so make it a good one that is conducive to growth while you're here, in 3-D. As the whole universe is in flow, the only stable thing about it is change. Change is the only thing you can count on. Try to hold something stable for just a moment and you will get mentally and physically tired real quick. It is the holding onto things that is unnatural in 3-D. The less you try to hold on to, the better it is for you. If you try to hang onto things or people, you will find the weight of life is too much to bear. Better to go with the flow and experience your life flowing with the universe than to be anything else. Going against the flow is not recommended in life because it is the hard way to go through life, struggling with your ego's demand for safety and stability in the world. These are only figments of someone's imagination that you and a lot of the others bought into. Stop buying into othere's thinking without doing some thinking of your own. Be your own person.